Reaching an Orgasmic State

 

An orgasm, sometimes referred to as "the little death," is the peak of sensual experiences. It represents the pinnacle of sexual ecstasy. Orgasms in males and females are not the same. Both, however, represent the pinnacle of sexual pleasure. Apart from the sensation of pure bliss, the peak involves a brief but intense transformation of a large portion of your body.

Some people may feel a partial block of their senses (hearing, sight, etc.) throughout it even before they have an orgasm. In the end, it also causes a brief loss of consciousness right before the culmination.

Orgasm in women

The female orgasm and sexual excitement are multifaceted processes involving the physical, emotional, and mental domains. From a tantric perspective, orgasms serve as a kind of cosmic and spiritual bridge that connects women to the transcendent and the divine. The woman's genitals have an internal tendency to collapse or draw energy inward. That means she can use it to replenish her own energy. In contrast, guys constantly try to explode outside with their genitalia exposed.

It's critical to comprehend the phases and mechanisms involved in female orgasms. Even more crucially, the woman must know when she is experiencing an orgasm and when she is not. The female orgasm is a sequence of incredibly pleasurable and powerful contractions that basically

impact the uterus and vagina. Usually, it's a reaction that can affect the tummy, legs, and entire body. The earliest contractions might happen in a very brief rhythm and are the strongest. The contractions grow less strong and may happen more sporadically as the orgasm continues.

Generally speaking, it takes longer and is slower than its male counterpart.

Women tend to be multi-orgasmic. This indicates that individuals are capable of experiencing several climaxes within a single sexual encounter.

Signs of Female Orgasm

There are four stages to a female orgasm: resolve, excitement, plateau, and climax. Remember that this division is theoretical in nature and should not be interpreted as an exact measurement. This is due to the possibility that the person is not fully aware of each step of her body's development. Furthermore, the duration of each phase (and even the sequence) may differ for the individual. Furthermore, how each person goes through each stage is a question of personal experience. Depending on the woman's disposition and mood, this might even alter. However, generally speaking, the feminine indicators of each phase are as follows:

Phase of excitement:

· Start of vaginal lubrication.

· The vagina's interior area grows.

· The cervix and uterus move higher.

The labia majora expands and splits apart.

· The minor labia expand.

· The clitoris gets bigger.

· Muscle contractions may cause the nipples to become erect.

· Breasts become larger.

Phase of plateaus

· The level of sexual tension has significantly increased.

The vagina's external area swells because to the increased blood flow in the region. Consequently, the size of the vaginal aperture decreases.

· An inflammation develops inside the vagina, which could hurt a little.

Reduces vaginal lubrication, particularly if this stage is overly extended.

· The glans advance toward the pubic bone and the clitoris becomes erect.

· The vaginal entrance becomes more noticeable when the labia minora darken and enlarge, which typically prompts the labia majora to open.

· The pigmented area surrounding the nipples, known as the areola, starts to enlarge.

· Breasts become larger.

• Increased blood flow in the vicinity of the skin's surface causes the so-called "sexual flush" in various parts of the body.

An elevation in heart rate.

· A greater sense of sexual tension in the buttocks and thighs.

Phase of Orgasm

· Muscle contractions in the uterus, anus, and vagina are rhythmic. The initial ones move more quickly and with greater intensity.

The ones that follow may be less focused and more arbitrary.

· The sexual blush intensifies and spreads over a significant area of the body.

The majority of the body's muscles tighten. The body may eventually contract in its entirety.

· During an orgasm, orgasms cause some women to discharge fluid from their urethra; this process is called "female ejaculation."

· During the height of the orgasm, the entire body may experience a brief stiffness.

Phase of Resolution

· Should sexual stimulation persist, the lady might have one or more more orgasms.

· The vagina and the vaginal aperture revert to their initial configurations.

· The uterus, clitoris, labia majora and labia, and breasts revert to their typical dimensions, positions, and hues.

· Any stimulation might cause discomfort as the clitoris and nipples can be extremely sensitive.

· The glow of passion vanishes.

Deep breathing and profuse sweating may occur.

The pulse beats rapidly.

· Should an orgasm fail to transpire, the woman undergoes all the changes and experiences associated with this final stage, but considerably more slowly. The sensation of being heavy and discomfort in the pelvis might be caused by blood that becomes trapped in the organs of the pelvis and is not released by orgasmic muscle spasms.

For women, the onset of an orgasm typically marks the culmination of a protracted process that typically follows a predetermined route. First, ideas like dreams and sexual anticipation cause the brain to get aroused sexually.

Likewise, visual stimuli—like witnessing her spouse in the nude—can cause sexual excitement. In line with this, auditory stimulation can also be achieved by listening to seductive and passionate language. Similarly, olfactory stimulation are required and ought to consist of various scents and fragrances emanating from the partner's body. To finish this entire process, the gustatory sense needs to be investigated.

Vaginal and clitoral orgasms After lengthy debates spanning decades, it is now generally acknowledged that the clitoris is necessary for a female to experience an orgasm. Remarkably, nerve endings are absent from two thirds of the vagina. That being said, discussing many kinds of orgasms is absurd. All orgasms involve the clitoris in some way, whether directly or indirectly. Even women who assert that penetration is the only way to experience an orgasm would be shocked to learn how they do it. After all, the penis touches the clitoris after grazing the vaginal opening and striking the pubic bone.

Orgasms in men

The orgasmic phase, which is brought on by the reflex contraction of the genital muscles, is triggered by a sufficiently extended sexual arousal phase. However, we should first talk about how a male orgasm happens before discussing the male orgasm and how it's interpreted from a tantric perspective.

This essentially occurs in two stages. In the initial one, the alleged

The contraction of the internal muscles that propel fluid from the seminal vesicles and the prostate to the posterior urethra is known as "ejaculatory inevitability" and happens in the internal organs. At this point, the male has a very specific feeling that signals the completion of ejaculation and an orgasm.

The second part of this procedure involves the contraction of the penis' base muscles and the subsequent discharge of semen through the urethra. In young males, the semen emerges from the urinary hole more forcefully during the orgasmic emission. The blood that passes through it after the final penile contractions is extracted venous.

It is typically accepted wisdom—especially among Westerners, as Eastern conceptions differ significantly—that the degree of pleasure experienced varies with the amount of semen released. When other pleasure-related factors are considered, though, this is no longer the case.

A number of additional variables include the current psychological circumstances, the

nature of the relationships between the lovers, their level of relaxation, etc. (a steady pair may perceive things differently than occasional partnerships).

Orgasm in men

It is crucial from the tantric perspective on sexuality and eroticism that the guy refrain from ejaculating throughout each sexual encounter. They should ideally only get an orgasm once every ten interactions. Although this may appear weird at first, it's crucial to comprehend the specific reasons why ejaculation is frequently avoided:

· Firstly, according to Tantra, semen is not a bodily fluid of any kind. By itself, this liquid is a creative and energetic source.

As a result, every ejaculation suggests a loss for man. one or both of the talents. Consequently, it is pointless to ejaculate throughout each and every sexual experience.

Tantra also takes into account the idea that too frequent ejaculations cause physical deterioration, decrepitude, and early aging. "Saving" the semen turns into a type of assurance for life expectancy and quality.

· Carnal becomes more of a spiritual experience when the guy can transform the seminal explosion into an orgasmic implosion by managing to avoid ejaculation.

The fact that a man loses his penile erection after he ejaculates during a particular period of sexual activity is the fourth decisive element. Additionally, interest in maintaining any kind of physical touch is frequently lost. Delaying ejaculation is therefore a great strategy to guarantee feminine satisfaction. It normally takes longer to attain the climax since women take longer to become stimulated and inclined to engage in sexual activity.

In addition, every man has experienced the sense of emptiness that comes after ejaculation. Most males, especially those who ejaculate frequently, feel practically surrendered after discharging semen. It is not necessary to ejaculate, and not doing so can make the sexual act last for hours without the desire to end it. How would you go about doing that? Tantra provides several methods for that Semen can be postponed by man.