Creating a Romantic Atmosphere for Enhanced Sexual Intimacy

In the pages of this book, we've looked closely at every aspect that affects a woman's capacity to achieve her goals—the Big "O." We have discussed physiology, technique, toys, props, and a ton of other exciting stuff. We have also discussed some of the reasons why your girlfriend needs you to be an Orgasm Master in order to ensure that she is having a good time.

But above all of that, there's classic, old-fashioned romanticism. It's a timeless fashion item that ladies will always like to incorporate into their sexual life. Women are romantics by nature. That does not imply that the rest of us aren't. Simply put, typical women are more naturally inclined to do this than average men are. You know how it goes: add that to our perception of the roles we're "supposed" to perform.

The story we're fed about what men should be like has stunted our inner Prince Charmings, just like our emotional lives. "Bullshit!" I say it again. In a bedroom, romance is rewarding and exciting, much like winning the lotto. Accept it from me.

PURPOSE OF THE SCENE

You're probably like most males if you're not living with your significant other. You don't really care that much about the appearance of your property. Car parts can even be on the dining room table. Not only is it unlikely that your bed will be made, but there will also probably be a big dog curled up in the center of it, licking its balls.

No, mate. Not sentimental. You have to take care of the house so that when your wife comes over, you can woo her like the Orgasmatronic Love God that you are. Your wife shouldn't ever view the interior of your house if you're not willing to do that. Here, I'm just being truthful. Discovering a world filled with stench-filled, holey towels, unmade beds, and dirty dishes can quickly turn a lady off.

You're capable of far more than that. Begin with a clean slate. This is the very minimum amount of work that you should put in. In particular, the bed needs to be made up with fresh linens, dog-free, and somewhat organized. The pillows need to be covered. The carpets should be vacuumed. Clear the dishes. Make it appear suitable for human habitation—especially for women.

When you put in an effort, women appreciate it. When living alone and anticipating a romantic evening with your significant other, the bare minimum of effort is cleanliness. If your property appears like a nightmare version of hell, where the Walking Dead herd just wandered through, you won't make much progress.

However, there's a little more you need to do to set the stage for a fun-filled night with your wife. Women adore it when you try to appeal to their romantic side, whether you live together or apart. When she gets home, surprise her if you cohabitate. Turn down the lights. Prepare the bath and light the candles. The rose petals are yours to hold. No one anticipates you to go into such depth.

Organize the sex toys. Turn on the music and pull down the covers. When she enters the room, offer her a glass of wine. Dress to appeal rather than to impress. You want her to say, "Yum," as soon as she enters in the door and look you up and down. My brothers, you look hot.

If you're not very good at cooking, you don't even have to. Actually, just don't cook if you're bad at it. Put in an order! Serve it with something sultry, like Indian or Thai cuisine. Something modest so that you're not overfed and ready for an evening of sensual enjoyment.

MEAL AS AN ORGASM IMPROVER

Alternatively, you could consider aphrodisiacs. It's common knowledge that eating particular meals will increase libido, therefore that's what you want.

Because the chemical capsaicin found in chillies is known to increase blood flow, which is closely linked to arousal. Additionally, capsaicin stimulates all the nerve endings you want to prick in order to aid your wife reach the Land of "O." Therefore, regardless of your decision, try adding a bit extra fire (not that you don't already have plenty). Bonus: Chilies aid in the fight against obesity!

Avocados and asparagus are good sources of vitamin E. This vitamin helps both her and your bodies manufacture all those wonderful hormones like estrogen and testosterone. Giving her one of these delectable greens will increase vaginal fluids and clitoris swelling (and we enjoy those, fellas, don't we?).

Did you know why pomegranates have always been considered a very seductive food? Antioxidants abound in these tasty, playful balls stuffed with seeds. You already know how crucial your blood vessels are to sex, and they play a significant role in protecting them. Pomegranates can assist increase arousal, which is caused by blood rushing to the genitalia. Not to mention, they look hot!

ACHIEVEMENT SCENTSUAL

Scents play a part in sensuality, which is what sex is all about. We can become energized by things that we cannot smell but are unquestionably present. Like a quiet siren song, pheromones guide us to the person we want. However, by purposefully adding some olfactory stimulus, we might choose to intensify the emotion that already exists in our physiological response to the ladies we love to adore and hers to us.

It is well knowledge that ladies enjoy scented candles. But some smells are just more seductive than others, and they can arouse your sexual appetites together. Similar to some meals, these smells are not only pleasing to the senses but also possess a strong sensual appeal that you may utilize to set the mood for your passionate, orgasmic evening!

Men who aspire to be the best in bed have been prescribed vanilla by doctors since the 18th century. It really is that strong. The Chinese have also been using the fragrance in their fragrances for millennia. Why? since they are aware of how men react to it. Since women might not understand why, I believe that to be the main reason why they find it appealing. Nothing less—we're talking about Love Jones elixir. Additionally, it has a slight euphoric effect that will be a wonderful precursor to the ecstasy you're about to induce in your partner.

It has been established that the aroma that best stimulates women's libido is black licorice. The sexiest combo on the planet for igniting a passionate evening with your significant other is when you add cucumber to that mixture. She will be enticingly scented before you ever touch her if you combine these two scents in an oil burner.

Sandalwood has been employed in Tantra, an age-old Eastern sexuality practice, for generations. It's supposed that lighting a sandalwood-scented candle or burning incense in your bedroom will give you both unforgettable orgasms. Using oil is another way to use this wonderful aroma. You may incorporate a long, soothing massage with body oil perfumed with sandalwood into your foreplay ritual. As women tend to experience orgasms more often when they are relaxed, this could be the secret to having the best orgasm ever. Mates, get those hands working!

NOW LET THE GAMES STARTE

Pay attention to her when you eat. Bring out some of the shady dialogue you've been practicing, and begin rubbing her mind until it reaches the level of languid, limp preparedness required to transport her to the Land of "O." Make fun of her. Give her a compliment. Enjoy yourself. Act as though you're on a first date and that you want to win her over. Perhaps you two could play that role-playing game together on this special occasion.

Even if you have a dishwasher, you might still want to do the dishes together. Make it a wonderful, sultry occasion when you can have more foreplay. As you scrub those dishes into the kind of lather you're putting her into, stand behind her and plant a kiss on her neck or nibble on her ear. Tonight the dishes can be left to soak dry. You should be attending to other matters, such as your now-warm woman.

THE LOVE DANCE

It is my hope that you have considered slow dancing with her to the music you have selected for your orgasmic seduction night. Make a wise choice. Make it seductive. Barry White may be an old hand, but music sure does have an impact on ladies.

Grab her hand and guide her to a room's open area. As you pull her into your arms, give her a direct look. As you run your hands down her waist, to her hips, and finally to the small of her back, you'll feel her melt like a block of butter. Wait to grab her behind. That can wait.

Women love to dance, that much is established. This one doesn't require you to be a Dancing with the Stars contender. Even if you're the biggest, clumsiest ox ever, you can still move in rhythm with the music by going right-left-right-left. If not, practice alone until you are able to. In order to eventually melt that woman in various ways, you want to feel her melting in your arms like candle wax. You should put in the work, buddy. Believe me. Simply carry it out.

AND SO FORTH

Once you've made her swoon with your romantic demeanor, take her to a comfortable spot where you may sit next to her later and enjoy a bottle of wine. Please excuse yourself for a short while. Proceed to complete the love chamber's details.

Turn on the candles. Because sensuous femininity adores the smell of anything wonderful, light the incense or scented oil; this will only improve her and your pleasure. Now go back to your lover's seat and start the celebration. Now that she's almost a puddle on the floor, their sensual, fluid conversation will soon move to more sexual topics, interspersed with delicate nuzzling and pointed touches. She'll be ready for the kind of love you can provide her before you realize it, and the two of you will be wrapped in a seductive embrace.

Every time you two make love, romance isn't something you have to stage manage. However, sometimes romance is just a means to show how much you appreciate making your girlfriend feel good about herself, how much you care about the quality of her experience, and how intense her orgasms will be.

There may be many occasions when neither of you will want anything more than a quickie at lunch. Perhaps you should find a parking spot and walk to the destination from the back seat of your car, as many of us did in our high school years; alternatively, you could use an elevator, stairway, beach, or your parents' broom closet! Your wife will be far more open to trying out novel and thrilling sexual experiences because you're now Agent Orgasmo.

You're having more, better, and radically different sex than you ever imagined, and it's all because you took the time to read this book and increase your orgasmic IQ. You've successfully opened the cookie jar. Well done, my friend.