Women and Porn: Dispelling Myths and Finding Mutual Pleasure

Nonetheless, it's a common misconception that men are more visually inclined than women. We are rapidly learning that this is by no means a general norm.

This has been the rationale for men's greater interest in pornography than in that of women. But many of us are discovering that women are just as visual as men are, as social conventions shift and women's sexual liberation starts to converge with the freedom that men have traditionally enjoyed.

Whether it's porn, an exquisite painting, or learning something new, women react to visual stimuli just as strongly as men do. Despite the delightful and limitless contrasts between men and women, we are discovering as the world evolves that women are lot more like men than many previously thought.

And what do you know? A lot of females find pleasure in watching porn. Some people may never acknowledge this, but it is a fact. Consult with others. You'll discover that women who you never would have imagined to be interested in that are in fact very much so! From hard core to erotica, female viewers of pornography are growing in number.

Women were forced to the rear of the porn bus and left standing outside the filthy movie theater because they weren't "supposed" to like watching people have sex, thanks to the gender straightjacket we discussed previously. Women are using the world of pornography that is available to them and rejecting this restriction on their enjoyment in greater numbers.

You guys have wonderful news if women are becoming interested in porn. Because porn can be an additional tool in your armory for mutual orgasmic fulfillment guaranteed by nuclear war! Watching porn with your significant other may be a very sensual and sexy experience that can lead to the kind of sex you both desire as well as thunderous orgasmic moments that she will be bragging about to her friends for years to come.

However, let's be honest. Not all pornography is made equal. She won't be interested in a great deal of it. I won't go into too much detail because you are aware of the subject. You'll know what to look for if you've been doing your homework and figuring out what irritates her. She might find it exciting to see two men fighting, but you might feel a little uneasy about that because many straight guys do the same thing. She might think it's disgusting, but you might find the sight of double penetration more alluring than hades. It's important to find something to watch together that will elicit the desired reaction from you both.

What you're watching together shouldn't intimidate either of you. Recognize that. woman need to feel like the sexiest woman in the world in their men's eyes because of what we discussed in Chapter 1. You must remember that. In addition, keep in mind that if you watch heterosexual porn together, she will be staring at a wide variety of bones. Remain calm. Mr. Orgasmatron, your penis is a part of you, and if you play your bedroom time the way I'm suggesting, she will definitely hold that part of you in the highest regard. She will actually be penning sonnets to it, and she could even give it a playful moniker. Don't let a massive dick get to you down. It's a motion picture.

Lesbian porn is consistently a safe bet. Even while they love it, many women aren't especially keen in playing the girly girl role or even going out in threesomes. The focus on women's genitalia in lesbian pornography is what attracts women, at least that's what my own woman tells me. The goal of watching girl-on-girl pornography is to experience the female orgasm, which is the center of all the activity. It's not a problem and it's not the center of attention because there isn't a penis in the room. It revolves around the feminine love blossom in girl-on-girl relationships, and guess what? Your sister Orgasmatrons might teach you some new tricks. I am helpless if you believe lesbians are unaware of women's orgasms! They are familiar with the equipment because they own identical equipment!

It makes sense, isn't that right? Yes, exactly!

Pornography abounds and can be found both online and offline. You'll find certain soft porn and erotica to be very alluring. There are also some hardcore. Just stay away from anything that involves publicly abusing or dehumanizing women. She won't find that attractive, and if you're the kind of man I believe you to be, neither will you.

When you become more and more horny, mutual satisfaction goes beyond simply passively reading pornography together. In every manner imaginable, you should be enjoying each other's company. As you drink wine, you could want to hold a running commentary or caress each other. Perhaps an award for the crudest comment would be entertaining!

Pornography is a means to an end, just like everything else in this book that suggests methods and means to give your girlfriend the thrill of unending orgasmic fulfillment. It's for her to gather the momentum she needs to go off like a neutron bomb, and for the two of you to enjoy yourself together. It might be the solution you've been searching for. Just make sure you are aware of her preferences so you can act appropriately. Avoid surprising her with something that would offend her. Together, go shopping and make plans for an unforgettable evening of sensual theater.